The History & Legends of Valentine's Day
By Cheri Sicard

Like most many modern celebrations, the origins of Valentine’s Day can be traced back to Pagan times. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a day honoring Juno, the Goddess of women and marriage and Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. 

The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia, a festival of love honoring Juno. Love lotteries were an important component of the celebration which took place on the eve of the festival. The names of girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Young men would draw a girl’s name from the jar, making these two partners for the duration of the festival. So even though they weren’t yet called by the name, these early Romans were in fact the first Valentines.

Of course, the early Christians frowned on such erotic goings-ons. Despite their best PR efforts, the church’s attempts to convince celebrants to substitute the names of saints for would-be lovers was not met with much enthusiasm, especially since the participants were encouraged to emulate their chosen patron saint’s virtues for the coming year. Instead the church settled for toning down the nature of Lupercalia from eroticism to romance.

Saint Valentine or Valentinus, who had been martyred on February 14 th 269 A.D, proved a convenient symbol around which to fashion this new celebration of romance. While evidence suggests the saint was himself a chaste man, legend has it he defied Emperor Claudius II by secretly marrying countless couples, a practice the emperor had banned believing that marriage weakened his army. Eventually Claudius caught on and the good saint was condemned and beaten to death. Another legend has it that Valentinus had befriended his jailer’s daughter during his imprisonment. He left her a farewell letter signed (you guessed it) "From Your Valentine". 

In 496 AD Pope Gelasius set aside February 14 to honor St. Valentine, who became the patron saint of lovers and gradually, February 14 became a day for exchanging love messages and simple gifts. The practice of lottery drawings to select Valentines persisted well into the eighteenth century, but a gradual shift took place in which the gift giving became the sole responsibility of the man. This marked the beginning of the end and the practice eventually disappeared and individuals were at last free to select their own Valentines.

Manufactured Valentine cards didn’t appear until the end of the eighteenth century. The Victorians took their cards to elaborate lengths, trimming them with lace, silks and satins and embellishing them with special details like feathers, flowers, golf leaf, hand painted details and even sweetly perfumed sachets.

Until the mid-1800's, the cost of sending mail was beyond the means of the average person, and the recipient, not the sender, was expected to pay the cost of mailing. It wasn't until the advent of the penny post that the modern custom of sending Valentine’s cards really gained critical mass. 

Today, Valentines Day is the second most popular occasion for sending greeting cards, only surpassed by Christmas.

Related Articles:

Valentines Hugs and Kisses, a Great Inexpensive Gift
This is a wonderful alternative to those little paper valentines! You and your kids will love making these for all of your favorite valentines!

Falling BACK in Love With Your Spouse
"Simply put, over the past year our children have been giving Rudy and I back to each other, and we have fallen in love all over again."

The Chocolate Theory
I have a theory. Chocolate is a mom's best friend. Wait, is that a woman's best friend or maybe a kid's best friend? Ok, I have  no theory, except that Chocolate is good all year round, any time  of day, and especially for Valentine's Day if you need an excuse to serve it. These recipes are appropriately gooey and rich.

Embossed Glue Heart Cards
These cards are really beautiful- who would know it is plain old glue and chalk that makes them special?